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Hello, this is Jose Parappully, Salesian priest and clinical
psychologist at Sumedha Centre for Psychospiritual Wellbeing at Jeolikote,
Uttarakhand, with another edition of Psyche & Soul.
Last weekend we reflected on a Holistic Spirituality
– Wholeness, not Flawlessness.
This weekend we shall reflect on another important
aspect of spirituality – Simplicity, so essential in a consumerist culture.
Lessons from Covid-19
One of the positive
blessings emerging from the Covid-19 and the lockdown that forced us to be home
bound, is that we would have recognized we need so little to live a happy and
satisfying life. If we have the basic necessities of food, clothes and shelter,
we do not need much else. The word basic here is important because food can be
extravagant, clothes superfluous and shelter luxurious.
We would have recognized
that much of what we considered essential are not so. We are able to manage
with so little. We would have recognized that so much of what we possess is
totally unneeded, that so much of what we fill our daily schedule with are
totally unnecessary or trivial. We recognised what are essential, such as our
relationships, and learned to devote time to them and eliminate unnecessary
activities and superficial interests. This has truly been my experience that is
transforming the way I live.
Covid forced me to be more
self-reliant and simplify my life. Covid-restrictions prevented our house-maid being
available for a long time. This turned out to be a real blessing – a
transformative experience. I realized I could do much of what she used to do.
I cleaned my room. Washed
my own clothes. I realized I needed just two sets of clothes. I would wear one
set one day, and wash the other, by hand (no machines), and just use them in
turn. It did not inconvenience me in any way- a few extra minutes, that’s all.
I had always wondered how the Sisters of Mother Teresa manage with just one
set, or maximum two, of clothes. It is possible, without much inconvenience. It
actually made their life simple, unburdened by needless possessions. They could
be transferred from one community to another at a moment’s notice (as it often
happened!). All their possession could be put into a small side bag, and walk
out to the next community.
That’s when I realized that I have so many clothes that I seldom use. They remain in my cupboard, used occasionally or never. Why not get rid of them? I will.
Simple Living
So many of us have not
only clothes, but many other things that we possess but do not use, or very seldom
use. We could easily give them away, to those who really need them, and simply
our lives and enrich theirs. We could keep aside two or three sets of fine
clothes for special occasions. For the rest, just have the minimum that is
essential. And why not we ourselves wash our clothes and dishes, clean our own
rooms? You know, it is simple, and one advantage is that it provides quite a
bit of exercise, and invigorates us.
We need not to throw away our clothes the moment a tear appears, or has faded and rush to buy new ones. Prince Charles, who can afford anything he wants, uses the same suits again and again, even mended ones, even at official gatherings. He does not feel a need to impress anyone with what he wears. Instead, he has inspired others to live simply, and save the money for charities.
He also advocates simplicity and challenges the consumerist culture. In an interview with the Editor of British Vogue magazine he said: We have “huge opportunities” to challenge “this extraordinary trend of throw-away clothing or throw-away everything, frankly.” He added that he himself prefers to get shoes “or any item of clothing” repaired when worn out or faulty rather than discarding them. He was taught simple living from childhood. When he was a child, he and his sibling used to take their shoes down to the cobbler in Scotland where he lived then and would watch with fascination as the cobbler repaired them.Saving the Planet
Researchers at John
Hopkins University have predicted that every two.-three years we are going to
have a pandemic more virulent and destructive than Corona. And the cause
climate change, resulting from over exploitation of earth’s resources and
polluting the atmosphere. Currently we are using 1.5 time the earth’s resources
destroying its capacity for self-renewal.
Often we accuse the
multi-national corporations and developed countries of contributing to climate
change and over utilization of earth’s resources that cause it. But we forget
we too make our contribution through our own over-consumption.
Spirituality of “Downward Mobility”
This is where the
Spirituality of Simplicity comes in. Several years ago, seeing consumerism
spreading over the globe, destroying natural resources, as well as exploiting
the poor workers Father Pedro Arrupe, former Jesuit General and a spiritual
giant of recent times, proposed a spirituality of “Downward Mobility” which is a radical move downward in the scale
of material standards, trying to live with less and less rather trying to
acquire more and more. But we love upward mobility. We want the latest gadgets,
possess the latest fashion accessory, even though they are totally unnecessary.
We often buy things, especially clothes, which we may never use! For some of us
hoarding things, which we may never use, has become a hobby. Every time we buy
something unnecessary we are depleting nature’s resources hastening the next
pandemic.
There is also so much
we waste. Water, electricity, food. If we men could use a mug of water when we
shave, rather than let the water keep on running, for example, we could save
much water. We could also make sure our plumbing is good and there are no
leaking taps. We could reduce the consumption of electricity, switching of
unnecessary lights and reducing the use of electric gadgets. When eating out,
we could order only the food that we are confident we can consume, rather than
leave behind to be thrown away. There are so many simple ways of conserving
energy. What is needed is only goodwill and some effort.
How
can we simplify our life?
How
can we avoid waste and conserve energy?
How
can we practice downward mobility?
For Our Prayer
In his 1st letter
to Timothy, St Paul says: “If we have food and clothing , with these we shall
be content.”
In the gospels Jesus exhorts
us (Mathew 6, 26 -34; Luke 23, 22-31) to trust our God who provides us with
everything and not be anxious about the future. We don’t need to hoard.
We could recall the
lives of those who have lived very simple lives, such as St. Francis Assisi, St.
Claire, Mahatma Gandhi, etc. We could then take a relaxed and comfortable
posture and feel the presence of the God who is with us here and now. Talk to God
about whatever is triggered in us by the Spirituality of Simplicity and
Downward Mobility and also listen to what God has to say to us.
We could also read Mathew 6, 26-34, or Luke 23, 22-31, and stay with what these words of Jesus evoke in us
Have a pleasant
weekend. Be safe. Be well. Be blessed.
Thank you for
listening/reading.
Pictures: courtesy Google Images
Jose Parappully SDB, PhD
sumedhacentre@gmail.com
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