Friday, February 21, 2014

NEWS AND VIEWS FROM ROME!

I left for Rome along with my colleague and friend Br. Cyriac Kurias on 19th early morning from New Delhi and reached the headquarters of the Salesians of Don Bosco at Pisana in Rome on the afternoon of the same day.

I am in Rome as the elected delegate to represent the Salesian  Province of New Delhi at the General  Chapter of the Congregation (a six-yearly gathering of the representatives of the more than 90 Salesian provinces extending over 132 countries) to discuss matters of policy and elect the General Council of the Congregation for the next six years. Br Cyriac is a special invitee.

We flew Lufthansa and what struck me as I approached the aircraft was the very cheerful female flight attendant welcoming the passengers with all the friendliness you can imagine (very unlike the image of the stern German I had)!  And very unlike the dower faces that we usually encounter on flights both domestic and international.

And inside the aircraft all the flight attendants (they were all female) were surprisingly friendly and cheerful. But they could be stern as needed as when with a commanding voice a flight attendant told a passenger too eager to get off the plane after it landed even while the aircraft was taxiing to sit down.

After a two-hour layover in Frankfurt we flew into Rome. An Indian Salesian, Lawrence Maria, was at the airport to receive us and take us to the Salesian headquarters and help us get settled in.

Father Francesco Cereda, the Moderator of the Chapter, welcomed us as we sat down to a late lunch – and with delicious chocolate!


The Generalate (the name by which the Headquarters is known) is a huge place and it is easy to get lost. In fact, later in the evening I spent twenty minutes wandering around to find my way to the same dining hall where we had lunch. And I have lost the way many time after that!

After resting and trying to get a feel of the place on the 20th, I went to have “darshan” of the “Eternal City” by going over to the Coliseum and the Victor Emmanuel plaza and surroundings on the 21st morning with my colleagues Fr. Godfrey D'Souza, the Provincial of Mumbai, Fr. Ajoy Fernandes, the vice-Provincial of Mumbai and Br. Cyriac. (see photographs).

Tomorrow all of us Chapter members who arrived in Rome leave for Turin (where Don Bosco worked and died) for a three day pilgrimage before we officially begin our Chapter work. Some members will be coming over directly to Turin, including my friend and colleague Fr. VM Thomas, the Provincial of Guwahati. We were informed tonight that the night temperature in Turin is 0!

Fr. Michael Peedikayil, the provincial of New Delhi, and anther colleague and friend, reached the Generalate yesterday.


There are all together 220 Chapter members and three of us from New Delhi.


Sunday, May 26, 2013

PURSUING PEANUTS!

The Delhi Police slogan says, “With you, for you, always!” I have always wondered what those words really mean, especially when I read in the media about where the focus of the force’s energy lies and what I witness on the Delhi roads.


Recent media reports suggest that the force has great interest in “spot-fixing” in the IPL. I guess the master brains in the force are working overtime to fix the culprits and they seem to have some success. But aren’t there more important issues that the force should pursue with similar alacrity and intent, if they are really “for us” “with us” “always”?


Spot fixing, I read, is not a crime according to the IPC. Hence, all the efforts to book the culprits as criminals, as the force is attempting to do will come a cropper. Proof: the Cronje Affair in 2000! Did the force succeed in prosecuting him and his accomplices!

 IPL we know is both circus and big-business, and a veneer of cricket. As circus we don’t need to give it much importance. It is meant to make us laugh, have a good time. We don’t’ mind the “tricks” the jokers use to make us laugh.


Indrajit Hazra of The Hindustan Times (I love the humour in his Red Herring column on Sundays) compared the IPL to WWE (World Wrestling Entertainment!). The spectators know the whole thing is pre-planned and the outcome is fixed. But do they care? They don’t, writes Hazra. “The thrill is in following the moves and the banter without knowing how the match has been fixed.” So why all the fuss about some blokes making some money! Doesn’t the force have something better to do?


Like any other big business, the players involved, that includes the top brass, will try every means within and outside the rules to “make a buck” more – such as using inside information.


So, Seesanth and co are peanuts! Why not go after bigger crooks? Here are some suggestions (all about issues that affect the lives of ordinary folks):

  • Corporate Tax Evasion: which deprives the government of resources to help ordinary people like us through its many programmes.

  • Medical Malpractice: through which pharma companies in collusion with health care corporations swindle money off ordinary people and injure their health and cause death.

  • Building Mafia and Politician Nexus: through which public land is looted (such as land on the banks of the Jamuna).

  • Sex and the City: such as rape and murder of women and children. (Preventing these would be such a credit to the force.)



I think pursuit of these bigger issues that affect our lives and showing some results will give us a more assuring sense that the force is really “With us, for us, always!


(Written with the best of intention, with malice/blame toward none.)


Monday, March 25, 2013

The Look!


As I listened to the reading of the Passion of Christ on this Palm Sunday the phrase that struck me is: “Jesus looked at Peter.” Their eyes met and Peter began to weep bitterly. 

Peter had a moment ago disowned Jesus three times despite his earlier protestations of loyalty which had also implied an "I'm better than them; I'm more loyal than them" self-concept.


I have been wondering what kind of look it was that had such an immediate impact on Peter, that brought about such remorse. I invite you, dear reader, to pause a while and ask yourself what kind of look that was. What kind of responses arise within you as you do that?  …..

For me, it would have been a look of much understanding, compassion and love: “I knew you would betray me because you are weak. But I know you love me and you are really sorry that you failed. I don’t hold anything against you. I love you the same”
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 Looks! There are so many kinds of looks – looks that convey so many meanings and evoke so many emotions.

Again, I invite you, dear reader, to recall the kind of looks you have offered and what your eyes conveyed through those looks. Were they looks that you are proud of? Or looks that you are ashamed of or embarrassed about? What emotions do you think those looks evoked in those at whom they were directed?

And what about the looks others have directed toward you? What did they convey to you? And how were you affected by them? What kind of emotions they evoked in you? And how did you see yourself seen by the other through those looks? What happened when your eyes met those of the other?

Recalling the many looks we have offered and encountered and staying with the answers to these above questions that arise within us spontaneously can tell us a good deal about ourselves.

And we could turn these reflections into prayer as we take a few minutes to talk to Jesus about looks -- his, ours and those directed at us by others.

Those readers who are not disciples of Jesus can hold a conversation with the God they believe in. And those who do not believe in God can hold a conversation with their own deep self. Or, simply sit quietly for a while in the awareness of whatever this reflection on “Looks” has evoked in them.

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“The work of the eyes is done. Go now and do the heart-work on the images imprisoned within you.” Rainer Maria-Rilke, in Turning Point.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

PROTECTION OF CHILDREN FROM SEXUAL OFFENCES ACT 2012 Praiseworthy but Flawed Legislation



The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Bill, 2011 which was passed in the Rajya Sabha on 10 May 2012 and in the Lok Sabha on 22 May 2012 received the assent of the President of India on 20 June 2012. It is now known as the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act, 2012 and is the law of the land.

This is a piece of landmark legislation. For the first time a special law has been passed to address the issue of sexual violence against children. It seeks to protect all children below the age of 18 from sexual assault, sexual harassment and pornography. These offences are clearly defined for the first time in Indian penal law. The Act provides for stringent punishment to the offenders. Aggravated Penetrative Sexual Assault, for example, carries an imprisonment of no less than 10 years, which can be extended to imprisonment for life.

Unique Features
The Act has some remarkable positive features. It provides for the setting up of Special Juvenile Courts and appointment of Special Public Prosecutors for the speedy trial of the accused. The evidence of the child is to be recorded within 30 days and the trial to be completed, as far as possible, within a year.

It provides a number of child friendly measures related to reporting, recording of evidence, investigation and trial of offences.

The statement of the child is to be recorded as far as practicable by a woman police officer not below the rank of sub-inspector. The medical examination of the victim is to be conducted in the presence of the parent of the child or any other person in whom the child reposes trust or confidence. In case the victim is a girl child, the medical examination is to be conducted by a woman doctor. The Act also stipulates that immediate arrangements have to be made, as needed, for the care and protection of the child who has been victimized.

The media has been barred from disclosing the identity of the victim without the permission of the Special Court.

The attempt to commit a crime, even if not successful, is made liable to punishment. The Act also provides punishment for abetment of the offence. Failure to report a known offence is also considered abetment.

In the case of an allegation, the Act places the burden of proof on the accused. At the same time it also provides punishment for false accusation. The Act considers offences as aggravated when committed by a person in a position of trust or authority over the child in any way.

The Act has mandated that Central and State governments give wide publicity to it. An especially appreciative measure mandated is that training be provided periodically to officers of Central and State governments on matters related to the implementation of the Act.

Short Comings
On the whole the Act is a fine piece of legislation in terms of dealing with cases of abuse of children. However, the Act has totally neglected measures to be taken to prevent abuse. All though the Bill is meant “to protect children from sexual assault, sexual harassment and pornography,” there is nothing in the Act that refers to prevention of abuse. The Act only deals with actions to be taken after the child has suffered sexual violence. Hence, the Act is a misnomer. Our legislators seem to think that punishment is a valuable deterrent. It has never been so in history! Just like capital punishment in itself has not deterred the committing of murder!

Although The Parliamentary Committee overseeing the Bill, had widely disseminated the Bill (it was also available on the Net) and invited comments and suggestions on the Bill from various organisations working with children, and suggestions had been sent, not many of them were incorporated before the Bill was passed in Parliament. The Act as passed contains some serious defects.

Definition of Offence
In the earlier version of the bill anyone under age 16 was considered a minor. The Act raised the cut off age to 18. In the course of it, the Act also made any sexual activity, even a consensual one, with children under 18 or between minors a serious criminal offence, punishable with imprisonment. This is unfortunate. Not every sexual act between children below 18 is inappropriate. There is much sexual experimentation among children that is part of healthy psychosexual development. The American Psychological Association, the premier association of psychologists in the world, has stipulated in its definition of sexual abuse that there has to be a difference of five years between a child and a perpetrator for a sexual act to be considered abuse.  One redeeming feature of the Act in this context is that if an offence under this Act is committed by a child, such child is to be dealt with under the provisions of the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2000.


Procedures for Reporting Cases
Chapter V of the Act that describes is “Procedures for Reporting of Cases” is the weakest or the most flawed section of the Act from a psychological and professional perspective.

This section required greater specificity. Any person who has reason to believe that an offence under this Act is likely to be committed or knows that such an offence has been committed any time in the past is obliged to inform the Special Juvenile Police or the local police. Failure to report is considered a criminal offence punishable by imprisonment.

Using the phrase “Any person” is making the onus of reporting universally binding, including the victims. Just as in Chapter II, B where various categories of persons whose action can be considered as aggravated sexual assault have been specifically mentioned, so also this section should have specifically listed the categories of persons mandated to report abuse, and who can be exempted.

In this context, what about “privileged information” such as gained through lawyer-client exchange, in psychotherapy or in the Sacrament of Confession (Reconciliation) in the case of catholic priests? Are these professionals also bound to divulge such privileged information? In the case of catholic priests who are obliged by their vow to maintain secrecy about everything heard in the Sacrament of Confession, this requirement becomes a violation of their sacred commitment to protect the sanctity of the Sacrament. It gives rise to conflict of conscience.

Even the child who has been abused is obliged to report the matter. This is not a very child-friendly measure. For a variety of reasons, including fear of reprisal, a child can refrain from reporting. I feel the child victim should have been exempt from this requirement to report. Fortunately the child is exempt from punishment for failure to report [Section 21(3)].

There is also no punishment stipulated for children who make false accusations or provide false information. In one sense, this is child friendly. However, this is also a questionable exemption in the context of a child being defined by the Act as someone below the age 18. A malicious adolescent can make a false allegation and face no consequences for it, ruining in the process the reputation and even careers of innocent people.

The Act does not mention any Statute of Limitation. Should an act committed 20 or 50 years ago be reported? Some differentiation should have been made between ongoing or recent abuse and abuse which happened a long time ago.

An important issue in regard to Reporting of Abuse that is missing from the Act is the protection of those reporting the abuse. When a teacher, for example, reports that a student is being abused by a family member (most abuse happens in the family), he or she may face negative consequences, including threat to life; the child too may suffer negative consequences including beatings and further assault etc. Section 19(5) and (6) provide for the protection and care of the child who has been victimised. However, no protective measures are offered for the person who reports abuse. Obligation to report, without providing protection for the one who reports, including children other than the victim, can be dangerous. We are aware of the dangers that whistleblowers face these days.

Non-inclusive Definitions
The wording of the act is such that a male bias can be read into it. The Definition of Penetrative Sexual Assault in Chapter II, Section A (3), for example, uses the masculine pronoun “he” to refer to the offender; this excludes women as offenders. What about women who engage in digital rape of boys or girls, or insert objects into the anus or vagina of children? Or, is penetrative sex applicable only to use of the male organ?

Even though the opening sentence of Section 19 (1) of Chapter V, uses “any person,” referring to those who are to report known cases of abuse, the pronoun used in the rest of the section is “he.” Here again we can read a male bias; by using the pronoun “he” the Bill can be interpreted to exclude women from the responsibility of reporting.

There is an assumption among many people that sexual abuse is perpetrated only by men; this is not true. Even though most abusers are men, women also sexually abuse both male and female children. Even though most victims generally are female, latest available statistics indicate that there is an increase in the number of boys who are sexually abused in India; in some states the number of boys abused outnumbers abused girls.

Better Late Than Never
The Act was long overdue in the context of statistics showing that more than 53 percent of children in India experience some form of sexual exploitation. Until the Act was passed there was no law in India specifically addressing the protection of children from sexual exploitation, even though such a law was mandated by the United Nations Convention on the Rights of Children, 1989 which was ratified by India on 11th December, 1992. The Convention required the State Parties to undertake all appropriate national, bilateral and multilateral measures to prevent the inducement or coercion of a child to engage in any unlawful sexual activity. It took India 20 years to fulfill that mandate. Better late than never!

The approach to the Bill by our lawmakers has also been rather lackadaisical. It had been drawn up in 2005. But it was introduced in the Rajya Sabha only on March 23, 2011. The same Bill was introduced in the Lok Sabha and  passed hastily in the Lower House at the last minute without much of a discussion (the only point raised was that  it could be misused) on the last day of the budget session of Parliament.

Another point to note: The Act states that it is applicable to the whole of the country, except Jammu and Kashmir. I am not in the know of the reasons for this exception. However, don’t the children of Jammu and Kashmir require protection against sexual assault? In the violent climate existing in that State, there is the greater likelihood of children being victims of sexual exploitation. Shouldn’t some provisions be made to prevent this happening?


In Conclusion
Over all, despite its shortcomings, the Act is highly commendable and one that is long overdue. It clearly defines sexual assault, sexual harassment and pornography and gives very clear guidelines to be followed when incidence of abuse comes to be known. Abused children will have the consolation that their violators as well as those who abet their victimisation will face due course of the law. Those who care for children also can have the confidence now that they can avail of legal recourse in cases of sexual exploitation of children.

Indian Church Response
I understand that the Catholic Bishops Conference of India (CBCI) has been working on the Church’s policy statement on protection of minors for quite some time now. It appears this has been an in-house enterprise and the document was not circulated among a wider group for feedback and suggestions. There has also been delay, for whatever reasons, in publishing it. The National Press had reported that it would be published by June 2011. The website of the CBCI makes no reference to the proposed policy.

It is important that the Church’s policy statement incorporates and addresses the requirements of the recent Act.

I am curious especially about the Church’s response to the legislative requirement that any one who comes to know of sexual abuse, present or past, or likely to happen, no matter what the source or medium (and this includes sacramental confession), is legally obliged to report the matter to the police or would be considered as abetting crime.




Saturday, June 23, 2012

PSYCHOLOGISTS: UNRECOGNISED AND UNDERRATED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS



Psychologists are mostly unrecognised and underrated in a world where psychiatrists and pharma companies rule the roost as far as mental health is concerned.

In terms of payment, psychologists are usually paid less than the psychiatrist. In most mental health settings there is a pecking order with the psychiatrists on top. At most mental health service internship cites, psychiatric interns would be paid for their services, most psychology interns wouldn’t be.

When some mental health issue comes up, media will contact the psychiatrist and get their opinion. Even though on an average the psychiatrist spends three minutes with their patients and psychologists fifty.  The psychiatrist will treat the symptoms of disease with medications, and the psychologist will seek to discover the roots of the disease and deal with the emotional implications, which no drug can treat. Psychiatrists know more about disease, psychologists know more about the person. The psychiatrist knows better the workings of a drug, the psychologist knows better the emotional dynamics that often trigger and maintain the disease.

The other day (June 23) an article appeared on the Editorial pages of The Hindustan Times in which the author discussed the Bill on the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences, passed recently by both the Raja Sabha and the Lok Sabha and which is awaiting consent of the President.

The author noted that there is need for “wide ranging national debate” on the bill (which by the way should have happened, and did not happen before it was passed by the two houses of parliament) and wrote: “Not by politicians or NGO’s but by parents, principals, psychiatrists, paediatricians, other stakeholders like parents and guardians, and the teens themselves….” (p.08). Notice the conspicuous absence of the mention of psychologists!

Yet, it is the psychologist who deals with the impact of the abuse on children and helps them to move toward healing. Drugs and paediatric care cannot do that. It is the psychologist who has a better understanding of the contexts and dynamics that lead to abuse. Yet, the psychiatrist and the paediatrician are invited to the debate but not the psychologist. Any debate on the Protection of Children from Sexual Abuse has to involve the psychologist who has a significant and irreplaceable contribution to make.

And it is time, the media woke up to the existence of psychologists and their expertise in the treatment of mental and emotional illness, particularly in the treatment of trauma that results from abuse and neglect.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

TEACHERS’S WORKSHOP AT SOUTH CITY INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL, KOLKOTA


I was invited to facilitate a Workshop for the High School teachers of South City International School in Kolkata on 14-15 June.



The school building is impressive and its infrastructure and facilities state-of-the-art with central air-conditioning. The school is only 4 years old and has had a very impressive growth. Starting with about 100 students in the first year, today the school has more than 1000 students and about 70 teachers. The high school section has 35 teachers, many of them with prior experience in other schools.

On the first day, the  Workshop was organised  around the theme “Enhancing Institutional Excellence.” I used structured exercises, videos and latest insights from organisational psychology to present the crucial ingredients that contribute to institutional excellence and helped the teachers to assess the dynamics at South City International that contribute to and stand in the way of institutional excellence.

The explorations on the second day centred around the person and functions of the teacher and focused on the theme of “The Emotionally Sensitive Teacher.” Starting with Howard Gardner’s theory of Multiple Intelligence, the Workshop used the concepts of basic emotional needs from Self Determination Theory, and of Mirroring and Idealising from Self Psychology to help the teachers look at the level of their emotional sensitivity and provided tools and approaches to enhance it.

The teachers were extremely satisfied with the Workshop. A number of them said this was “the best of all the workshops” they ever had.  It had helped them to “enhance cohesion” among themselves, “open up communication channels” and create “greater connectedness and trust” and “be more aware of and sensitive to of the emotional needs” of students and colleagues.

“The workshop has touched us not only professionally but also personally. Its effect goes much beyond our life in the school.” This was another common sentiment expressed by the teachers as they reflected on their experience of the workshop. 

Thursday, April 19, 2012

50th ANNIVERSARY RE-UNION AT BANDEL BASILICA



Thirty five of us from Kerala and two from Mangalore – all 12-13 year olds had landed at Our Lady’s House School ( a strange name for an all-boys’ seminary) at Bandel, next to a 400-year old church on the banks of the River Hooghly, about 40 kms north of Calcutta (now Kolkata) with dreams of becoming priests. The date was 7th April 1962, Saturday before Palm Sunday. Later we were joined by 11 boys from Bengal, mostly from the diocese of Krihnagar in Nadia District.


From 15th to 17the Arpil this year 14 from the 1962 batch gathered at Bandel Church (now raised to the status of a Basilica to mark the 50th anniversary of our arrival there, to pray together and share our stories. Those who made to the occasion: CJ Sebastian, Daniel Beck, KM Jacob, KP Cyriac, KT Thomas, K. V. Paul, Lukas Biswas, MK Kurian, Peter Gomes, PJ Mathew, PJ Michael, PO Jose, Leonard Gomes and VJ John (who joined our batch later), and VM Sebastian. Four of our superiors from that period were also present: Fr. Strocio Rozario (who was our Rector for about a year), Fr. Bertie Fernandes, Fr. VV Mathai and Most Rev. Lukas Sirkar, Archbishop Emirus of Calcutta, who were then clerics and our teachers, . We were very glad that they had taken time to be with us. Swapan Gregory, from the batch before ours, joined us. He is living close to the Church.


Besides sharing our stories since we left Bandel, we also retraced some of our rituals like gathering before the statue of Our Lady of Fatima, the grotto of our Lady of Lourdes, saying our Rosary in procession up to the Balcony where we had the mass celebrated with Fr. Bertie Fernandes presiding (on the 16th evening). We also had Mass in the Basilica on the 17th morning at which Fr. Mathai presided.

We decided to meet again in Kerala before Jubilee year ends on 7th April 2013. We are hoping to contact more from our batch before the next Reunion.


The following are the 47 from the 1962 batch of seminarians at Bandel Church:

AJ Thomas, AP Francis, Daniel Beck, Anthony Biswas, Francis Biswas, Lukas Biswas, Wilfred D’Cruze, Gabriel Gomes, Nicholas Gomes, Peter Gomes, Pius Gain, KA George, KA Joseph, K I Jose, KJ Anthony, KJ Peter, KL Chandy, KM Jacob, KP Cyriac, KS Joseph, KT Thomas, KV Paulose, MJ George, MK Kurian, MS Joseph, NP Kurian, Francis Noronha, PG Joseph, PJ Mathew, PJ Michael, PJ Sebastian, PK Varghese, PL George, PL George, PL Paulson, PO Jose, Pascal Rodrigues, Roy Anthony, TC Joseph, TT Thomas, UM Mathew, VA Raymond, VJ Devassia, VM Sebastian, VM Sebastian,VS Felix, VT Joseph.

Please get in touch and help to get in touch with others.